Why Do You Want To Get Your Ex Back?

That's the question I kept getting after Virginia left me. I cringed everytime someone asked me that question. Heck, people like my friends and family who knew Virginia were asking me that question, they should have known better! I was getting tired of people asking why I wanted to get my ex back!

About day 3 after Virginia left me I seriously sit down and thought about the reasons that I wanted her back. I actually made a list of the reason to try and get her back versus the reasons I should have just blown her off and let her go.

Needless to say, the list for getting my ex back was much longer than the list for letting her go.

For starters, Virginia and I just seemed like we were made for each other. I know that sounds corny, but it's true.

We liked a lot of the same things in life, we had nearly all the same opinions and beliefs and we truly enjoyed each others company. In short, there were a lot of reason not to let her go.

As I said before, the people around me who should have known better were the ones who also thought I was nuts trying to get my ex back. I have to say, seeing how hateful and indifferent they were being toward Virginia and me kinda hurt. They knew we were like two peas in a pod. They knew we did a lot of the same things together. How could they think I would just let her go? How could they think that I may have believed she wasn't worth getting back?

It was late day 3 or early on day 4 after Virginia left me that I decided to try and get her back. Not having her around was totally driving me nuts! I actually had dreams of us doing the Couple thing together. Not anything fancy, but dreams of us just having Diner or watching a Movie together. I knew I had to give it every effort of my being to get her back! It was like a piece of my soul was missing!

Once I decided to get my ex back, I sit down and wondered how? I'd already tried calling her, texting her and emailing her to no avail. I started to wonder if there wasn't someone she was already seeing. That hurt a lot as well. I wanted to go and park outside her apartment to see who came and went.

But if she ever caught me, I knew she would never trust me again. Plus, the stalking laws what they are in Georgia and all, I didn't want to have a run-in with the law. I was at my wits in on how to get Virginia back.

One thing I did early on was to start asking some of my friends who seemed to do well with Women how the got their ex back. Unfortunately none of them had a solid answer. In fact most of their answers seemed made up. I wasn't real confident in using any of them. I suspect they are the type of guys who don't want their exes back!

It was then that I sit down and made more list (have you noticed, I'm a list maker!) This list consisted on ways to get my ex back. I had probably two dozen ways I thought might work. Of course, when you're lonely and heartbroken, most ideas look good.

Welcome!

Chances are if you're reading this, then you're interested in how I got my ex back in just over a week. "So what" I can hear you saying. Well, the "so what" is that she left angrier than I'd ever seen her, swearing at me and telling me that she hated my guts. On top of that, she said that she never wanted to see or hear of me again.

I was devastated to say the least! It felt like my whole world had come crashing down! And the whole freakin' argument was really about nothing!

All that had happened was that she showed me a picture of her Cousin in a bikini and asked me how she looked. "She's pretty hot in that bikini" I said. Something inside her pretty head snapped because the next thing I knew, she was standing up in front of me cussing and accusing me of having an affair with her Cousin! I'd never even met the chick! I was totally freakin' shocked!

I remember asking myself after she left "How could this happen!" It had truly felt like I had no reason to live. I felt like my purpose in the World had just spun out in my driveway and squealed tires down the road, leaving me a hopeless and emotionally empty shell.

In the days that followed I tried to call her and would get no answer. When I left voice mails or text messages, she wouldn't return them. In fact, one of her friends texted me and it said "Virginia doesn't want to talk to you, leave her alone. Go off by yourself and die jerk wad. You really hurt her and she never wants to see you again"

Again, I was totally shocked? What was I suppose to do? She showed me the picture and I gave her an honest answer. I didn't think it was derogatory or anything, in fact I was trying to pay her Cousin a compliment!

So now you know how I got into this mess. I built this blog to show you how I got into this mess and how I got hooked back up with Virginia in just over a week. It wasn't easy either. I think she really did hate me for a while! LOL But hey, it's all good now because we're back together, happier than ever!